I bought my Mark III blue stripe new in 1990. After a year of steady every-weekend-five-hour loud gigs, I bought a spare set of power tubes.
I switched them around at a gig. Could not tell the difference.
your power tubes should last a long time, if you use the standby switch, and remember that that amp full of tubes is just a heavy fragile wooden box full of light bulbs, and tote it around as such.
When most tubes die suddenly, it's from mechanical failure, i.e., being tossed and bounced in the back of the van.
There are Mesa amp manuals that say pre-amp tubes need not ever be changed unless they start making noises.
The big issue is they just don't make 'em like they used to.
The materials and manufacturing processes of the olden days simply turned out a better quality product.
And yes, those folks that make and sell tubes will say pretty much anything to get you to buy more tubes. Don't believe everything you read on the interwebs, including this.