Correct. You have been told one of those oft-repeated bugaboos that is completely wrong. The color code is simply there so you can match (approximately) between pairs of tubes. Like if one of your "Grays" go bad, you replace with another gray and not with a different color as that would result in a mismatched pair. Or if your amp runs 4 tubes that you match the two pairs. That's it.
Believe it or not, even a little change in bias point can change the way the amp sounds, depending on gain settings, etc.
I've done a lot of experimenting on this (not necessarily Mesa tubes, but the concept is the same).
If your amp is baised a little cold, it will be slightly more quiet (noise wise), have a more focused feel (not get really mushy very easily).
If the amp is biased a little hot, it will have a much more dynamic feel, more harmonics, and get mushier sooner due to power tube breakup.
But....if the amp is biased somewhere in the middle of the acceptable range, which is a 70% ratio between Plate Voltage and Bias Current, then it is the best of both worlds.
I really think that most Mesa amps are biased so cold because they want the tubes to last longer, the amp to have more headroom, and to lower the noise floor on the higher gain amps like the Rectos.
And....They really make a lot of money on tube sales, so they create a myth that their amps run better on their tubes!
Now, if we look at Mesa's statement about matching color to color, they are defeating their own argument. If a Red is not a good match to a Grey, then that means that they draw different amounts of current.
I've always looked at it like Groove Tubes' matching system. If you look at Joey B's findings, it sort of supports this theory.
Red tubes overdrive more easily than the Whites.