If you are really gentle when you try to push it in (sounds slightly connotative
), you should be able to feel if it's not lined up properly.
It does take a little while to figure this out.
If you can see the empty socket after removing one of them this will help you line them all up a little better. Most amps have them all oriented the same way.
My Soldano head is the worst, the 1st (and most important to the tone) 12AX7 is behind the Output Transformer and really close to the front of the amp, so it's extremely hard to reach. You basically have to do it by brail.
I start by putting the tube up to the socket. I then rotate the tube a little at a time until I feel it go in just a little bit more than it did in any other position.
Then I will try to push it in a bit. If it doesn't go, I keep moving it around and trying this method until it does go in.
On my Bedrock 621, I used to just put the amp up on a table or work bench, & turn it upsied-down. It is approximately the same size as a Mark I. This helped tremendously.